sâmbătă, 3 aprilie 2010

Pentru ca si o vacutza poate sa fie NAIVA

Ati vazut vreodata vreo vacutza naiva??
Adica aceea vacutza care se indragosteste de taurasul smecheras si refuza sa vada ca ea nu este singura vacutza din turma care beneficiaza de atentia lui...
Pai va spun ca eu am vazut...si ohooooo..cate.. .Chiar si pe strada le recunosti,trebuie doar sa le privesti in ochi si imediat zaresti tristetea si aerul visator pe care il emana in jurul lor....
Unii spun ca suntem genetic predestinate sa picam in plasa a cel putin unui tauras smecheras.
O fi asa,nu o fi asa...asta nu consoleaza cu nimic.De cele mai multe ori tristetea ramane si nu pleaca din suflet decat atunci cand apare taurasul potrivit,sau poate nici atunci de tot.
Incepi sa iti pui intrebari,oare de ce nu m-o fi ales pe mine??sau oare de ce nu sunt eu vacutza cea buna??.....dar adevarul este ca pui intrebarea gresita.Pur si simplu nu esti vacutza potrivita pentru el si cu cat intelegi asta mai bine cu atat vei reusi sa iti iei gandul mai repede de la taurasul smecheras.
Nu incerca sa gasesti motive stupide,pur si simplu...

let it go....
Va fi mai bine,mult mai bine.

Aveti grija de voi vacutzelor naive;)
Pupici
P.S:postez aici un comentariu al unei fete experimentate in acest domeniu
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